Regret... or Learning Experience?

bangfor · Joined: 20 Oct 2006 Posts: 75

Like the lady said as long as you don't do bad to others anything you tried must be just that. How else you'll really know well about drinking if you don't drink, but drugs might be an exception because you see how they affect others. My point is many experiences whether they are good or bad, it's good to have a firsthand experience and decide if they are good or bad to continue doing them.

rattitude · Joined: 14 Jul 2006 Posts: 101

Oh boy but there are some limits to that advice. That's why we don't let kids learn how to cross the road by the trial and error method. Plenty of 'experiments' could end up with irreversable consequences.

shinningstar · Joined: 04 Jan 2007 Posts: 102

I learned good lessons from my own experience. Infact, my experiences thought me how to be strong and fight the battle of life. Trials, hardships, difficulties and frustration in life, I'm very thankful for that. I'm a good fighter now compared before.

reviewer · Joined: 14 Dec 2006 Posts: 33

I think children are often stressed. Your permanent record won't follow you forever, but it's important to learn - not only your studies but how to deal with others.

shinningstar · Joined: 04 Jan 2007 Posts: 102

I second to that reviewer. It's very important to teach our kids in learning how to deal with other people. It serves as their stepping stone in multiplying friends and subtracting enemies.

aima123 · Joined: 24 Oct 2006 Posts: 105 Location: Philippines

I agree with you shinningstar, children must be taught how to intereact people around them positively. And to let them know between good and bad.

shinningstar · Joined: 04 Jan 2007 Posts: 102

In addition, I'm hoping that all kids will apply the good values they learned from their parents. It's just sometimes kids pay attention more on the TV or playstations compared to their parents advices.